About Valerie
Valerie Keller Gates is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma who focuses on helping adults manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, depression, and ADHD. She speaks plainly and meets people where they are. Her style aims to make conversations feel direct and supportive so clients can talk through what matters most to them.
She draws on client-centered methods that prioritize each person's goals and pace. Valerie also uses techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy to help people notice and change unhelpful patterns.
Background and approach
When trauma or intense emotional memories come up, she may incorporate EMDR-informed steps alongside mindfulness and narrative work. Valerie trained with a Bachelor of Science in Family Studies and Gerontology from Southern Nazarene University and earned a Masters of Human Relations with an emphasis in Licensed Professional Counseling from the University of Oklahoma.
She has seven years of clinical experience working with adults, families, and groups in a range of concerns including bipolar disorder, addictions with dual diagnosis, and OCD-related problems. Her sessions are straightforward and practical. She aims to be transparent, honest, and caring so clients feel comfortable naming difficult topics.
Treatment plans are built together and adjusted as needs change. Parents and individuals looking for help with parenting stress, blended family issues, communication problems, or life changes will find a therapist who blends real-world guidance with evidence-informed techniques. Valerie prefers to tailor each plan to the person rather than follow a fixed formula.
Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions support them
Client-centered work focuses on the person's priorities and pace, giving space for them to set goals and guide session topics. This approach helps when someone needs acceptance, practical problem solving, and steady support while they make changes.Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) highlights the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and uses clear exercises to shift unhelpful patterns. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, stress, and managing day-to-day routines affected by ADHD or mood challenges.
EMDR-informed steps paired with mindfulness techniques can help when past events or intense memories continue to cause distress. Mindfulness adds simple attention and breathing practices to reduce overwhelm and improve focus.
Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. Valerie will work with each person to try methods that fit their goals and comfort level, adjusting techniques over time based on what helps most.
Online therapy makes these approaches more flexible. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and guided exercises. Phone sessions can be a lower-bandwidth option for brief check-ins. Live chat and text-based messaging work well for shorter updates, skill practice, or when someone prefers writing over speaking. These formats let people fit therapy into busy schedules and maintain continuity even when life is hectic.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
Also listed
- ADHD
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 7 years
- Licensed
- Oklahoma
- Languages
- English
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