About Tommi-Jai
Tommi-Jai Walsh is a licensed social worker with 21 years of clinical experience. He practices in Missouri and brings a calm, down-to-earth manner to sessions. He identifies as a trans woman since 2020 and is an ally and experienced member of the LGBT community, which informs his respectful, nonjudgmental style.
Tommi-Jai keeps sessions low key and personable and sometimes uses gentle humor. He helps people notice unhelpful thinking patterns that increase stress and anxiety.
Background and approach
He also helps people name and process strong emotions that have lingered since past events. In therapy he uses straightforward tools to manage mood and behavior, as well as deeper conversations about meaning and relationships. He draws from client-centered approaches so the person’s goals shape each session.
He also brings strategies from cognitive behavioral work and dialectical skills when emotions or patterns get intense. Clients who come for relationship strain, parenting concerns, grief, trauma, or ADHD can expect practical steps alongside emotional processing. He is comfortable discussing sexuality, alternative relationship styles, and identity-related concerns without judgment.
His approach blends clear skill-building with space to reflect on life purpose and values. Tommi-Jai aims to help people move from surviving to planning for a brighter tomorrow. Sessions focus on skills you can use day-to-day and on understanding the stories that keep you stuck.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online care
Client-centered work focuses on the person’s priorities and relies on listening, reflection, and collaboration to set goals and guide sessions. It helps when someone wants a caring space to make sense of feelings and decide what matters next.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, uses clear steps to change thinking and behavior. It is useful for anxiety, mood problems, and for learning practical strategies to manage ADHD-related tasks and focus. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, teaches skills for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and better interpersonal interactions when emotions run high.
Choosing the best approach is a process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, try methods that fit, and adjust the plan as needed. That collaborative approach helps people try small changes and notice what works for them.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy fit into daily life. Video calls let people read facial cues and use screen-shared worksheets. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when a client prefers not to use video. Live chat and text-based messaging support brief check-ins, homework exchanges, and ongoing skill practice between sessions.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 21 years
- Licensed
- Kansas, Missouri
- Languages
- English
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