About May
May Kirby is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with 10 years of clinical experience. She centers the relationship with each person and uses that connection to support real change. May listens for strengths and practical steps people can try between sessions.
She has a background working in intensive outpatient mental health settings. That work gave her frequent exposure to stress, anxiety, trauma, mood disorders, and addiction-related concerns. Over time she developed an approach that balances practical skills with attention to how early relationships shape current struggles.
Background and approach
May draws on several therapy methods to match a person's needs, including acceptance and commitment ideas, attachment-focused thinking, client-centered work, cognitive behavioral tools, and existential questions about meaning. She uses simple, concrete tools such as values-based goals, behavior experiments, and tracking patterns to make progress feel manageable.
People often reach out for help with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, ADHD-related challenges, and life transitions. May also supports those dealing with burnout, caregiver stress, obsessive patterns, eating or sleep problems, and identity questions within LGBT concerns. Sessions focus on practical next steps, clearer communication, and building routines that reduce overwhelm.
May encourages collaborative goal-setting so each plan fits a person's daily life and responsibilities.
How May's approaches translate to online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small, consistent steps toward those values. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes by focusing on actions that fit a person's goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and uses simple experiments and tracking to change unhelpful patterns; it often helps with panic, mood disorders, sleep, and compulsive behaviors. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current connections and helps people build more supported ways of relating to others.Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. May collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and daily life. She adjusts tools and pace based on what is helpful, so the plan evolves as progress happens.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good for deeper conversations and visual cues, phone calls can be a simpler option with lower bandwidth, and messaging or live chat work well for brief check-ins, coaching-style coaching, or when someone wants ongoing written support. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into a busy schedule.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Grief
- Hoarding
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Self esteem
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- South Carolina
- Languages
- English
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