About May

May Kirby is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with 10 years of clinical experience. She centers the relationship with each person and uses that connection to support real change. May listens for strengths and practical steps people can try between sessions.

She has a background working in intensive outpatient mental health settings. That work gave her frequent exposure to stress, anxiety, trauma, mood disorders, and addiction-related concerns. Over time she developed an approach that balances practical skills with attention to how early relationships shape current struggles.

Background and approach

May draws on several therapy methods to match a person's needs, including acceptance and commitment ideas, attachment-focused thinking, client-centered work, cognitive behavioral tools, and existential questions about meaning. She uses simple, concrete tools such as values-based goals, behavior experiments, and tracking patterns to make progress feel manageable.

People often reach out for help with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, ADHD-related challenges, and life transitions. May also supports those dealing with burnout, caregiver stress, obsessive patterns, eating or sleep problems, and identity questions within LGBT concerns. Sessions focus on practical next steps, clearer communication, and building routines that reduce overwhelm.

May encourages collaborative goal-setting so each plan fits a person's daily life and responsibilities.

How May's approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small, consistent steps toward those values. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes by focusing on actions that fit a person's goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and uses simple experiments and tracking to change unhelpful patterns; it often helps with panic, mood disorders, sleep, and compulsive behaviors. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current connections and helps people build more supported ways of relating to others.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. May collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and daily life. She adjusts tools and pace based on what is helpful, so the plan evolves as progress happens.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good for deeper conversations and visual cues, phone calls can be a simpler option with lower bandwidth, and messaging or live chat work well for brief check-ins, coaching-style coaching, or when someone wants ongoing written support. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into a busy schedule.

Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does she help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, and ADHD among other concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her approach is collaborative and relational, blending acceptance and commitment ideas with client-centered listening and cognitive behavioral techniques.
How much experience does she have?
She brings 10 years of experience, including work in intensive outpatient mental health treatment settings.
What credentials and location should I know about?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor - LPC - practicing in South Carolina.
Which languages and regions are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and May accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
She sees clients via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to therapist availability.

What this therapist works with

Most often

Experience
10 years
Licensed
South Carolina
Languages
English

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