About John
John DeCarlis, LISW, LSCSW, works with adults who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, grief, or ADHD-related challenges. He speaks plainly, listens directly, and helps people build practical skills to manage day-to-day life. Sessions focus on concrete steps rather than labels.
He uses a mix of approaches to match each person's needs. That can include acceptance and commitment ideas to help people focus on values and action, cognitive-behavioral techniques to change unhelpful thinking and behavior, and client-centered methods that follow a person's pace.
Background and approach
Hypnotherapy and attachment-based ideas are also part of his toolkit when they suit the situation. John draws on 26 years of experience and holds a master’s degree from the University of Maryland School of Social Work. He is licensed as an independent social worker in Ohio (LISW) and as a clinical social work specialist (LSCSW).
His background includes work with veterans and post-deployment care. In sessions he aims to be direct, approachable, and interactive. Expect a focus on skill-building and clear goals you can practice between meetings.
He tailors conversations and plans to what matters to each person. People often come to him for help with relationships, sleep problems, parenting strain, career transitions, addictions, and coping with life changes. He also supports those dealing with trauma, anger, low self-esteem, and issues around intimacy.
John emphasizes partnership and the client’s own strengths when finding solutions.
How his approaches translate to online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people name their values and take small steps toward them despite difficult thoughts or feelings. It is useful for anxiety, depression, stress, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and changing behaviors through practical exercises and homework. That approach is often used for panic, phobias, mood problems, and sleep difficulties. Client-Centered Therapy puts the person’s experience first by following their pace and encouraging self-discovery, which supports longer-term change and self-esteem work.Finding the right approach is part of the process. John will work collaboratively to try methods that fit a person’s goals and preferences. He may combine ideas from ACT, CBT, and client-centered work while adding hypnotherapy or attachment-focused tools when they seem helpful. Progress is measured by small, concrete changes you can practice between sessions.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good when visual cues matter, phone can be easier when bandwidth is low, chat allows shorter check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflections between meetings. These options make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule and to keep momentum while working toward clear, practical goals.
Questions people ask
What kinds of concerns does he help with?
What is his general therapy style?
How much clinical experience does he have?
What credentials and region are listed?
Which languages are supported and can he work internationally?
What session formats are available?
How are fees handled?
How do I begin working with him?
What this therapist works with
Most often
Also listed
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Sex addiction
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 26 years
- Licensed
- Kansas, Maryland, Missouri, Ohio
- Languages
- English
We will earn a commission if you sign up through our link, at no cost to you.