About Henry

Henry "Jay" Swedlaw is a licensed professional counselor who brings 20 years of experience to his work. He practices as an LPCC and a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. He focuses on helping people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, addiction, trauma, grief, and ADHD.

Jay aims to make the first conversation simple and clear. He listens first, then helps people set practical goals. Sessions often focus on small changes that add up over time.

Background and approach

He works in a direct but compassionate way so people can try new strategies between meetings. In therapy he uses methods that help people notice their thoughts and choose actions that match their values. He also uses tools that break problems into manageable steps.

This combination supports coping with day-to-day demands as well as bigger life transitions. He has a long history of working with issues around sexuality and identity, including LGBT matters and gender dysphoria. He also addresses topics such as intimacy, body image, BDSM and kink culture, and compassion fatigue.

He speaks English and accepts international clients who can join from other places. Jay offers sessions in several formats, including video calls, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging. Pricing varies with region and uses a subscription system that can be canceled at any time.

To begin, a person completes a short matching questionnaire and schedules a time based on therapist availability.

How therapeutic approaches fit into online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people identify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values even when feelings are hard. It’s useful for chronic stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns; it often helps with anxiety, depression, and ADHD-related routines. Mindfulness Therapy focuses on present-moment awareness and simple attention skills that reduce reactivity and improve focus and emotional balance.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to goals and try methods that fit a person's needs and preferences. Plans are adjusted over time based on what works, with feedback used to refine focus and tools.

Online formats - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging - offer flexibility for different schedules and needs. Video is useful for in-depth sessions, phone can be a lower-bandwidth option, live chat allows shorter check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, school, or busy family routines while still working on meaningful change.

Questions people ask

What concerns does this therapist address?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, grief, ADHD, and related issues such as intimacy and body image.
What is the therapy style like?
Sessions emphasize clear listening, practical goal-setting, and steps to try between meetings. The approach is direct, compassionate, and solution oriented.
What experience does he bring?
He has 20 years of clinical experience working with a range of emotional and relational concerns and longer-term practice supporting personal growth.
What credentials and location are listed?
He holds LPCC and Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor credentials and practices from Texas.
Which languages are supported and can international clients participate?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients who can join from other countries.
What session formats are available?
Clients can meet by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on preference.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started with this therapist?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time according to the therapist's availability.

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Experience
20 years
Licensed
Florida, Texas, Wyoming, New Mexico, Arizona, New Hampshire, California
Languages
English

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