About Emily
Emily Hakkinen is a licensed clinician in Vermont who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship problems, grief, low self-esteem, and ADHD. She speaks plainly and aims to make first steps feel manageable for someone who is worried or unsure. Emily holds a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker credential, LICSW, and brings five years of professional experience to her practice.
Her approach begins with making space for what matters to each person.
Background and approach
Sessions focus on listening first, then finding realistic steps the client can try between meetings. She uses client-centered techniques that let the client’s goals guide the pace and direction of work. Emily combines mindfulness practices with motivational interviewing to support focus, reduce overwhelm, and boost follow-through on goals.
Narrative and solution-focused work help people reframe difficult stories about themselves and test small changes that can make daily life easier. In sessions she emphasizes practical tools for coping with changes, managing impulses, and improving communication. She also addresses issues like compassion fatigue, addiction, and career stress in direct, problem-solving ways.
The tone is collaborative and matter-of-fact - Emily helps people find what actually works for them. Clients can expect straightforward conversations, short experiments to try between sessions, and attention to real-life obstacles. Emily encourages patience and steady progress rather than quick fixes.
Approaches that work well online
Emily uses client-centered work to follow each person's priorities and create a clear agenda for sessions. This approach means the therapist listens first and then helps shape goals based on what the client wants to change or understand, which fits well with talk-based video or phone sessions.Mindfulness therapy is part of her toolbox and involves simple attention and breathing practices to reduce overwhelm and improve focus. Those practices translate easily to short guided exercises during a video call or as audio or text prompts between sessions.
Motivational interviewing helps people find their own reasons to make changes and build small, realistic steps toward goals. It works well in brief check-ins over chat or structured conversations on video that focus on increasing motivation and follow-through.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work together. Emily will collaborate with each client to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and daily routines rather than assuming one fixed style.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility: video calls let people use visual cues and longer conversation, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat is useful for quick check-ins, and text messaging supports short reflections or updates between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and to try different formats to see what helps most.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Intellectual disability
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed
- Vermont
- Languages
- English
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